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		<title>Comment on Five Grown Up things I&#8217;ve done so far today by Tessa K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tessa K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 14:33:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My adult behaviour for today consisted of turning down two fun things on Friday night because I have to work on Saturday and need more than three hours&#039; sleep to pass as a competent adult. I only work two Saturdays a year, so it&#039;s bad timing. There was a large amount of highly &#039;adult&#039; language to express my disappointment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My adult behaviour for today consisted of turning down two fun things on Friday night because I have to work on Saturday and need more than three hours&#8217; sleep to pass as a competent adult. I only work two Saturdays a year, so it&#8217;s bad timing. There was a large amount of highly &#8216;adult&#8217; language to express my disappointment.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Misogyny is only part of the problem by Ed Gerstner</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ed Gerstner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2011 16:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not so sure. And in saying this, I don&#039;t mean it as a polite way of saying I disagree (as I am occasionally wont to do), but that I really am not confident that misogyny is of the same order as general trolliness. There&#039;s something about misogynist threats that strike me as particularly menacing.

Perhaps it&#039;s the fact that domestic violence against women is so commonplace that threats of violence against women seem more credible, and so, more alarming. In this sense, I think it&#039;s right in putting it into the same category as homophobia and racism. 

Ultimately, the best response is the same, don&#039;t feed the troll. But on the topic of the wider discussion, I reckon there&#039;s a more useful debate to be had around whether or not there is enough observance of &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wil_Wheaton#Wheaton.27s_Law&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wheaton&#039;s Law&lt;/a&gt; &#8212; &lt;em&gt;Don&#039;t be a dick!&lt;/em&gt; &#8212; in online discussions.

Trolls will be trolls. I&#039;m more concerned and disturbed by otherwise gentile netizens behaving like trolls when they think they have the mob on their side. If seen this far too often from groups of people - skeptic fanbois in particular (though certainly not exclusively) - who should know better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not so sure. And in saying this, I don&#8217;t mean it as a polite way of saying I disagree (as I am occasionally wont to do), but that I really am not confident that misogyny is of the same order as general trolliness. There&#8217;s something about misogynist threats that strike me as particularly menacing.</p>
<p>Perhaps it&#8217;s the fact that domestic violence against women is so commonplace that threats of violence against women seem more credible, and so, more alarming. In this sense, I think it&#8217;s right in putting it into the same category as homophobia and racism. </p>
<p>Ultimately, the best response is the same, don&#8217;t feed the troll. But on the topic of the wider discussion, I reckon there&#8217;s a more useful debate to be had around whether or not there is enough observance of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wil_Wheaton#Wheaton.27s_Law" rel="nofollow">Wheaton&#8217;s Law</a> &mdash; <em>Don&#8217;t be a dick!</em> &mdash; in online discussions.</p>
<p>Trolls will be trolls. I&#8217;m more concerned and disturbed by otherwise gentile netizens behaving like trolls when they think they have the mob on their side. If seen this far too often from groups of people &#8211; skeptic fanbois in particular (though certainly not exclusively) &#8211; who should know better.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Misogyny is only part of the problem by Tessa Kendall</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=870#comment-540</link>
		<dc:creator>Tessa Kendall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2011 08:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Internet has made it possible to be foul and vicious at a safe distance. It&#039;s a haven for cowards and bullies. I doubt if any troll would say the same things to someone&#039;s face.

However, I don&#039;t think there&#039;s any harm in pointing out that misogyny is part of troll activity because we live in a society where many people think that feminism has done its work yet misogyny is still rife, from rape to lower wages.

So yes, let&#039;s have a wider discourse but not discourage individuals from speaking out about their personal experience whether that&#039;s misogyny, homophobia or just plain abuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Internet has made it possible to be foul and vicious at a safe distance. It&#8217;s a haven for cowards and bullies. I doubt if any troll would say the same things to someone&#8217;s face.</p>
<p>However, I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s any harm in pointing out that misogyny is part of troll activity because we live in a society where many people think that feminism has done its work yet misogyny is still rife, from rape to lower wages.</p>
<p>So yes, let&#8217;s have a wider discourse but not discourage individuals from speaking out about their personal experience whether that&#8217;s misogyny, homophobia or just plain abuse.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Baroness &#8220;Children Should Play in the&#8221; Greenfield by Spuriouser and spuriouser &#124; The Skeptical Dad</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=844#comment-524</link>
		<dc:creator>Spuriouser and spuriouser &#124; The Skeptical Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 00:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and my inclination is that this is A Good Thing for broadening and challenging the mind (see Carmen Gets Around for a similar conclusion). Of course, I await the evidence to support this, but one thing is clear, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and my inclination is that this is A Good Thing for broadening and challenging the mind (see Carmen Gets Around for a similar conclusion). Of course, I await the evidence to support this, but one thing is clear, [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by Mark</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-512</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 13:21:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*cough*
maybe
*cough*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*cough*<br />
maybe<br />
*cough*</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by Tessa K</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-511</link>
		<dc:creator>Tessa K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 13:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have spent my entire adult life successfully avoiding sperm entering my lady parts. I have never once weighed up a prospective shag as a prospective baby-father. Is there something wrong with me? Am I not a proper woman? Or is Liz Jones in fact a SUCCUBUS?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spent my entire adult life successfully avoiding sperm entering my lady parts. I have never once weighed up a prospective shag as a prospective baby-father. Is there something wrong with me? Am I not a proper woman? Or is Liz Jones in fact a SUCCUBUS?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by Carmenego</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-510</link>
		<dc:creator>Carmenego</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 12:46:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What she fails to grasp is that condoms come ready lined with spermicides.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What she fails to grasp is that condoms come ready lined with spermicides.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by Carmenego</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-509</link>
		<dc:creator>Carmenego</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 12:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Speaking from experience there?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking from experience there?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by Mark</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-508</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 12:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Never stick your dick in crazy.
Sadly, many, many men ignore this basic rule.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never stick your dick in crazy.<br />
Sadly, many, many men ignore this basic rule.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Snatching for my snatch? No. Just no. by murgle</title>
		<link>http://www.carmenego.com/?p=856#comment-507</link>
		<dc:creator>murgle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, even stolen sperm are sentient enough to refuse to impregnate this woman...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, even stolen sperm are sentient enough to refuse to impregnate this woman&#8230;</p>
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